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Myths & Facts About Domestic Violence
Myth: Domestic violence does not affect many people.
Fact:
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A woman is beaten every 15
seconds. (Bureau of Justice Statistics, Report to the nation on Crime and
Justice. The Data Washington DC Office of Justice Program, US Dept. of
Justice, Oct., 1983)
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Domestic violence is the
leading cause of injury to women between ages 15 and 44 in the United
States…more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined. (Uniform
Crime Reports, Federal Bureau of Investigation, 1991)
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Battered women are more
likely to suffer miscarriages and give birth to babies with low birth
weights. (Surgeon General, United States, 1991)
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Sixty-three percent of the
young men between the ages of 11 and 20 who are serving time for homicide
have killed their mother’s abuser. (March of Dimes, 1992)
Myth: Battering is only a momentary loss of temper.
Fact:
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Battering is the
establishment of control and fear in a relationship through violence and
other forms of abuse. The batterer uses acts of violence and a series of
behaviors, including intimidation, threats, psychological abuse, isolation,
etc. to coerce and to control the other person. The violence may not happen
often, but it remains as a hidden (and constant) terrorizing factor.
(Uniform Crime Reports, Federal Bureau of Investigation, 1990)
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One in five women victimized
by their spouses or ex-spouses report they had been victimized over and over
again by the same person. (The Basics of Batterer Treatment, Common
Purpose, Inc., Jamaica Plain, MA)
Myth: Domestic violence only occurs in poor, urban areas.
Fact:
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Women of all cultures, races,
occupations, income levels and ages are battered by husbands, boyfriends,
lovers and partners. (Surgeon General Antonia Novello, as quoted in
Domestic Violence: Battered Women, publication of the Reference Department
of the Cambridge Public Library, Cambridge, MA)
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Approximately one-third of
the men counseled (for battering) at Emerge are professional men who are
well respected in their jobs and their communities. These have included
doctors, psychologists, lawyers, ministers and business executives. (For
Shelter and Beyond, Massachusetts Coalition of Battered Women Service
Groups, Boston, MA 1990)
Myth: Domestic violence is just a push, slap or punch…it
does not produce serious injuries.
Fact:
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Battered women are often
severely injured…22 to 35 percent of women who visit medical emergency rooms
are there for injuries related to ongoing partner abuse. (David Adams,
“Identifying the Assaultive Husband in Court: you be the Judge.” Boston
Bar Journal, 33-4, July/August 1989)
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One in four pregnant women
have a history of partner violence. (Journal of the American Medical
Association, 1992)
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Approximately 1,800 murders
were attributed to intimates in 1996; nearly 75% of these had a female
victim (US Department of Justice, 1998)
Myth: It is easy for battered women to leave their abuser.
Fact:
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Women who leave their
batterers are at a 75% greater risk of being killed by the batterer than
those who stay. (Barbara Hart, National Coalition Against Domestic
Violence, 1988)
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Nationally, 50% of all
homeless women and children are on the streets because of violence in the
home. (Senator Joseph Biden, ,US Senate Committee on the Judiciary,
Violence Against Women: Victims of the System, 1991)
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There are nearly three times
as many animal shelters in the United States as there are shelters for
battered women and their children. (Senate Judiciary Hearings, Violence
Against Women Act, 1990)
Myth: Children are not affected when one parent abuses
another.
Fact:
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40-60% of men who abuse women
also abuse their children. (American Psychology Association, 1996)
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Most research conducted found
that children who witness violence are significantly more likely to have
problems in one or more of the areas of behavioral, physical, emotional,
social and cognitive development than children who do not witness violence.
(Jasinski, J.L. and Williams, L.M. ed. Partner Violence: A Comprehensive
Review of 20 years of Research, pp.80-81, 1998)
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How to get help
If you are in immediate danger
call 911
24 Hour Hotline
(479) 273-0730 or 1-800-775-9011
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